The Courage to Own Your Identity

Remembering who we really are is one of the most critical parts of our human and leadership journey. If we don't have the courage to own our identity, the world will own it...will own us. What do you believe about yourself? About others? About the world? When I first sat with these questions, the answers … Continue reading The Courage to Own Your Identity →

Trust in the Waiting

It's Holy Saturday. A day of silence and darkness. Lucky for us, we know that the light is coming. But what about the disciples and followers of Jesus? Many of them thought that when Jesus was crucified on the cross, the story was over. They thought He must not have been the Savior and King … Continue reading Trust in the Waiting →

Upside Down and Backwards

Today is Palm Sunday. The day that Jesus accepted death. He knew that going to Jersualem meant the beginning of the end. He surrendered his will and chose to ride in on a donkey, signaling for all that humility and sacrifice are the ultimate leadership traits. Jesus portrayed an upside down and backward way of … Continue reading Upside Down and Backwards →

The Courage to Connect with Others

She sat on the floor next to me as I sat in the recliner. Ice machine and pain pills in full effect. It was just a couple days after ACL surgery and my friend (and teammate), Sarah, volunteered to come over and care for me while my husband went back to work. I asked her … Continue reading The Courage to Connect with Others →

A Tribute to Lost Loved Ones

One year ago today we lost my mother-in-law. Today I am remembering the lessons she taught me and reflecting on all that she stood for. She was a pillar of service and strength. Although she suffered most of her life from a chronic illness, Marsha served whenever and however she could. When she could no … Continue reading A Tribute to Lost Loved Ones →

Liberation: My 2024 Word of the Year Reflection

Liberation: (1) the act of setting someone free from imprisonment, slavery, or oppression; release. (2) freedom from limits on thought or behavior. This has been my word of the year in 2024. I love all of these definitions, and the idea of being free...but I knew the work I would have to do to get more free … Continue reading Liberation: My 2024 Word of the Year Reflection →

The Real Fight

I see. I will not engage, will not be enraged. There are no winnersin this game. So I sit. I endure. For the sakeof something bigger. You can call me weak. We both knowthe truth. True weaknessis giving in. To the impulse. To the fight. To participate in the destruction. No fight is needed here. … Continue reading The Real Fight →

Floating in 2023

My One Word for this year was "float," a word I resisted with vigor when it chose me. My heart and mind were firmly set with plans for growth and achievement and there was no room for "floating." Yet, I had learned from previous years that when we word keeps coming back to me, it … Continue reading Floating in 2023 →