This blog entry is a keynote I was grateful to be invited to give at a Catholic school foundation gala. 37 years ago I was huddled in a car with my little sister terrified because of what was happening in my home and praying God would keep my mom alive. My parents divorced but the … Continue reading Moving From Fear to Faith
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Lessons from Grandpa about Life and Leadership
Sharing this reflection in memory of my generous, strong, God-fearing grandpa who joined our Heavenly Father on September 20, 2025. There are some life and leadership lessons Grandpa imparted that stand out. Always keep your hope for people, especially the ones you love. Don't overcomplicate things. Love and serve well. Never stop striving after Jesus. … Continue reading Lessons from Grandpa about Life and Leadership
I Wish I Was a Robot
"I wish I was a robot," was something a client recently said in the middle of a session. Although I haven't had anyone else phrase it like this, it is a common sentiment expressed by my coaching clients. At the root of it are things like: "I wish I didn't have all these feelings." "I … Continue reading I Wish I Was a Robot
The Courage to Own Your Identity
Remembering who we really are is one of the most critical parts of our human and leadership journey. If we don't have the courage to own our identity, the world will own it...will own us. What do you believe about yourself? About others? About the world? When I first sat with these questions, the answers … Continue reading The Courage to Own Your Identity
Trust in the Waiting
It's Holy Saturday. A day of silence and darkness. Lucky for us, we know that the light is coming. But what about the disciples and followers of Jesus? Many of them thought that when Jesus was crucified on the cross, the story was over. They thought He must not have been the Savior and King … Continue reading Trust in the Waiting
Upside Down and Backwards
Today is Palm Sunday. The day that Jesus accepted death. He knew that going to Jersualem meant the beginning of the end. He surrendered his will and chose to ride in on a donkey, signaling for all that humility and sacrifice are the ultimate leadership traits. Jesus portrayed an upside down and backward way of … Continue reading Upside Down and Backwards
The Courage to Connect with Others
She sat on the floor next to me as I sat in the recliner. Ice machine and pain pills in full effect. It was just a couple days after ACL surgery and my friend (and teammate), Sarah, volunteered to come over and care for me while my husband went back to work. I asked her … Continue reading The Courage to Connect with Others
A Tribute to Lost Loved Ones
One year ago today we lost my mother-in-law. Today I am remembering the lessons she taught me and reflecting on all that she stood for. She was a pillar of service and strength. Although she suffered most of her life from a chronic illness, Marsha served whenever and however she could. When she could no … Continue reading A Tribute to Lost Loved Ones
Liberation: My 2024 Word of the Year Reflection
Liberation: (1) the act of setting someone free from imprisonment, slavery, or oppression; release. (2) freedom from limits on thought or behavior. This has been my word of the year in 2024. I love all of these definitions, and the idea of being free...but I knew the work I would have to do to get more free … Continue reading Liberation: My 2024 Word of the Year Reflection
The Real Fight
I see. I will not engage, will not be enraged. There are no winnersin this game. So I sit. I endure. For the sakeof something bigger. You can call me weak. We both knowthe truth. True weaknessis giving in. To the impulse. To the fight. To participate in the destruction. No fight is needed here. … Continue reading The Real Fight
Grit, Gratitude, and Grace 